I had a whole other post idea for tonight, but then I meditated and well, that seemed more important right now.
A friend of mine badly wanted to clear out her mind, body and soul. Stress was pushing it’s limits on her well being. We all know that feeling too well. She suggested going to the Blue Iris Zen Sangha over on the Westbank to learn about meditation. I was skeptical since I am not a religious person, and didn’t want to chant, but we checked it out and it was all about meditation.
I had previously meditated some on my own with an iPhone app and pretty much fell asleep when I did it. You are not in a sleep state I learned, but that is the peacefulness of meditation. With that in mind I was excited to learn more.
It’s not flashy, but very humble. A Zen garden with dogs and a Vietnamese Buddhist Monk, whom we talked to for a few minutes and learned of his travels. I could tell my friend’s husband was fascinated with the Monk, I mean you just want to ask him so many questions and the Monk is a man who just wishes to pass on his teachings. Next we went to the meditation temple, pillows lined up on the floor. It was a thoughtful setting, not formal and the 14 or so people there were the same. The three of us were the new ones in the group. You sit relaxed and they have an open talk of a Buddhist discussion for the week. Tonight was about Impermanence. A pretty griping subject considering I’ve changed so much in my life and have taken the good and bad away every time. I think all three of us wanted to speak or shout out in agreement with everyone who spoke, but we were wide-eyed and concentrating. The one thing I got out of it is the only thing that is truly permanent is change, therefore life cannot continue without impermanence.
Then it was the meditation. There are two 20 minute cycles of complete silence with a stretch walk in between. Concentrate on your breathing; little or no movement. This is the peace and tranquility time. I think I can speak for all of us that we really felt it…I know I got there to that deep meditative point if just for a few minutes and it felt great. When it’s over it just feels like all the craziness in life washes away from you.
Lets just say I went there with a very busy mind and left in total peace. Quiet all the way home.
This is a portion of the Four Takes on Impermanence:
“If we are not empty, we become a block of matter.
We cannot breathe, we cannot think.
To be empty means to be alive, to breathe in and to breathe out.
We cannot be alive if we are not empty.
Emptiness is impermanence, it is change.
We should not complain about impermanence, because without impermanence, nothing is possible.”
-Thich Nhat Hanh